Almost no one is lucky enough to escape the particular kind of beautiful hell that is having a crush on someone. Those emotions will grab hold of you when you least expect it, and once they do, resistance is generally futile. Love them or hate them or likely both , you should probably get used to the occasional inconvenient crush. And possibly the most inconvenient of the lot is an unexpected crush on someone who is already your friend. Where do you even begin with this nightmare? It can be really scary when you realize that, uh oh, you definitely do want them to kiss you. When you realize you have a crush on your friend - especially if you decide to act on it - things will inevitably change.