After that I asked her to leave, she tried for two years to get me back but I moved hours away. She even showed up at my house onceI let her stay out of pity and then kicked her out the next day. She was a high class escort and stripper a couple months later less than 1Year from her first time where I was sure I'd met my wife. I still miss her sometimes but glad I dodged that insane bullet. My soon to be ex just moved 6 hours away for school, and she has formulated a "criteria" for me to follow, one video chat a day, must always reply texts, etc. She also says "I love you" WAY too much, although we have been together 1. It's exhausting for me and feels like a chore rather than a fun relationship.