Move on. There is someone better. Believe it. He started to show his real assclowny behaviour after we had sex:- We are still communicating via texts, and he still thinks that I am physically attracted to him, how naive he is!!. The logical thing to me here is ignoring modern expectations and telling it like it is for you. Like many women, I get pretty emotionally attached once sexual intimacy is involved. No big deal, just the way it is for me.