I've held out hope he'd come around again, wise up and be the man he once was, but I'm getting less and less each week. My heart is breaking. Thank you so much for finding my articles topics interesting, for reading and taking time to comment. I appreciate your wise words. Miss-Adventures, It's unfortunate that many women in their late teens, 20s, and early 30s have no clue that men their age are mostly looking to have fun or "go with the flow" concerning relationships. These women are usually the ones that experience the most intense heartaches that come with waiting and hoping for a marriage proposal for years.