She thought that the men on the app were all members of her church, which meant she could finally relax: they would have the same values and expectations of dating - such as no sex before marriage - and they would be respectful of her boundaries. Or so she thought, until she matched with a returned missionary who at first seemed successful and physically fit. His response made the hairs on the back of her neck stand up, and she immediately blocked his number. Later that night, she received calls from three random numbers - all of them him - and she blocked those too, and hoped that was the the end of it. But days later, she received a message from an Instagram account from a guy claiming to live in her area. They exchanged a few messages and he asked her out. As she was still feeling skittish after her last experience, she agreed to meet in front of the safest place she could think of: the Laie Hawaii Temple.