But in this instance, no one can chip in to help each other. If it bothered him, he would have done something by now yes. Unsure if you are dating exclusively, if you are, you can always revert back to dating others as well. Take it as a test for him and yourself. If he wants to genuinely pull his weight, he will anyway, it will not change. He will prove it to you. If you feel more financially secure with someone of better financial standing, better you know now then later.
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I was one of those people who rushed it in the beginning, and that did not end in my favor. I have been lucky and I am incredibly grateful for that; every guy who I have dated has been so gracious when I told them about cerebral palsy, and what that means for how my body functions, and they all have said that CP is really a non-issue for them.
It funny thinking about how I was treated, because I am now reflecting on the fact that there may have been some level of self-sabotage on my end which ultimately led to some dating demise.
Again, gaining confidence in yourself is incredibly important here.
I have been working on building my self-confidence for a long time now, and I am finally in a good place, so I promise you it can happen.