Are you dating after bariatric surgery? Going out with hopes of meeting that special someone can already be a challenge. How does life after bariatric surgery affect your love life, prospects, and new found confidence? Reveal When Necessary- How soon should you drop the Bariatric bomb? After all, who you are is exactly what is in front of your suitor. Live in the moment and keep your past in the past for now. You might feel frustrated, discouraged, and above all ticked off that you still have to follow a stricter diet plan.